I discovered masturbation when I was 12. 

Not just rubbing on my bike seat or pool jet, but holy shite, block the door, clumsy climax kinda thing.

I remember it was the summer after 6th grade and everything was changing.

We were moving from Michigan to Florida.

I had just broken up with my first boyfriend.

I had a legit training bra, and felt hella cool with my Boyz 2 Men CD.

While I hadn’t started my period yet, I had certainly begun the awkward, painful, and inevitable departure from childhood.

At the time, the magical O arrived by accident, and to be honest, it felt both innocent and something incredibly adult and private.

Like, discovering an unusual superpower or mysterious, vaguely inappropriate creature in your room.

I was toweling off in my room and somehow found that frantic toweling “down there” resulted in full-body spasms.

UMMMM. Worth exploring THIS, I thought.

I had discovered a purely magical gift between my legs.

My body felt ecstatic, and strong without shame or fear because I had no particular connection or relationship to my “privates” at the time.

And I CREATED THAT??

I had little sense that I was being “bad” or doing something dangerous or wrong.

Then, of course, began my coming of age.

With adolescence, I also learned ALL the rules, shame, secrecy, peer approval, humiliation, ways of fitting in, bluffing, exploration, & family reckoning… 

and eventual (way) post-adolescent self-trust, and sexual celebration (ok, still learning that stuff ;).

Here’s the thing.

We ALL have our own experience of discovering our authentic, innocent pleasure (erotic or otherwise).

And then, the systemic shaming of our erotic self (either from living in a misogynistic culture or through big or small traumas).

Even as adults, with college degrees, kids, and DECADES of sexual activity, self-pleasure can still feel like a useless, boring or weirdly shamey secret thing.

Ya???

wtf.

We’re gonna change that.

Your self-pleasured Pussy exists for MORE than a crotch sneeze, “sheath,” peace maker, or stress valve!!!

Masturbation can be many things.

It can be sneaking an orgasm after your husband falls asleep bc you want to relax but DON’T want sex.

It can be a quickie with the showerhead.

It can be a clunky skill that feels awkward and fruitless.

It can be done together with your partner.

It can be long and elaborate.

It can be WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT!!

(honestly no judgment here- there is no “right” way to orgasm!).

SOOO… HEY LYD, what’s the difference between rubbin’ one out and

PUSSY ACTIVATION??

Your attention to ALL YOUR SENSES and INTUITION.

PUSSY ACTIVATION is connecting with your INTERNAL WISDOM (heart/gut/pussy) without OVERTHINKING & OVERRIDING it. 

It’s about creating safety in your body, self-seduction & discovery.

It’s experiencing a slow, expansive orgasm &

Learning how your body responds when it is a total YES (aka your internal compass). 
💥

THIS is the foundation of being a turned-on woman.

YOUR desires are a force of nature if you let them breathe & activate in your body.

SO, are you ready for better solo pleasure (and beyond)?

UM, YEAH, TIME TO ACTIVATE MY PUSSY… Click here.

You have access to the Pussy Activation series (for FREE this month only- then for sale on my website). 🔥🔥

Y’ALL… I’ve seriously never offered anything like this…

I’m guiding you through self-touch, squeezing, scratching, massaging, tasting, playing and climaxing…

HOLY WOAHLY.

This 15min guided masturbation audio series will help you explore pleasure and guide your orgasmic energy.

Let me know which episode YOUR PUSSY likes the best:

AIR (edging)
FIRE (breath of fire)
EARTH (orgasmic breath work)
WATER (Ice Play)
SPACE (Cosmic shit)

PEOPLE… Pussy Activation is just ONE way we can do this.

ACTIVATING YOU is a process of both brain and body.

Having a badass coach in your corner makes the process of sexual healing & expansion SO MUCH FUN and WAY EASIER!

My consultation is about an hour and we hash it ALL out.  We figure out a pleasure plan JUST for you. My packages are 4 months of GOLD making that plan come into life.

Click here to book a consult.

XO,

Lydia