I help women

explode their lives with

pleasure, presence & purpose.

ready to Turn the fuck on?

START MAKING MAGIC

mrslydiafeldman

When are you most creative? I usually feel my bra

When are you most creative?

I usually feel my brain light up just after shutting the light off for sleep.

I used to get frustrated by this inconvenient timing, scribbling ideas down in the dark.

Then I realized my creative prowess LOVES:

a relaxed body

Quiet mind chatter

No interruptions

Minimal pressure to produce

The hum of sensual satisfaction &
A celebration and allowance of all weird ideas as f*cking gold.

I began to use these same qualities more during the "crazy" (work from home) days.

I imagine beginning my creative work time with ease & bouyancy

I guard my work time (as best as I can) to have few interruptions

I allow messy time to create, write and think without pressure.

I scribble and push creative ideas into the world BEFORE Ive perfected or overthought them into nothingness.

My body IS my guide & best friend in co-creating my magic.

I notice what Im feeling.

When do you feel most creatively motivated and juiced?
Do dish✨

For tomorrow's Topic for boosting your CREATIVE LIBIDO well talk about mindful movement and meditation for creativity 👉🏼👉🏼👉🏼join my FB group Crash Bang Color Lab- tomorrow at 3pm.

Xx
Lydia

#pleasurecoaching #getturnedon #turnupthecreativejuice #easeandflow #goodvibesclub #loveyourprocess

@noharanda so pretty! So true ❤️

It's Monday We got this😇😈 • Xo @ginjaswag

It's Monday

We got this😇😈 •
Xo @ginjaswagger @motherdenim

Everything in life will show up in bed. Dry spell

Everything in life will show up in bed.

Dry spell in editing that final chapter of your novel?

Dry vagina.

Can't decide how to arrange the living room, so nothings on the wall?

Wavering libido.

Waiting for press LIVE IG, but freeze with 😰NOTHING to say?

Timid sexual voice to turn on the light and show him exactly what you LIKE or DONT.

The beauty is, nothing has gone array if you're creatively low lately.

Nothing is broken if you've slipped into sporadic, lack luster lovemakin.

You can turn back on.

And as you do, courageous, weird, amazing shit will start popping into your head

AND you will make the crazy ideas happen!

Creative flow comes fast and hot when you're sexually alive and well fed.

They are the same.
Both are your life force.

If the ideas, passion projects, & next-big-things aren't gushing out of you, you DONT have to wait for the inspiration.

The more pleasure you embody, the more you CREATE a vibrant life you freaking love.

This week, ill be exploring the 5 pillars for boosting your creative libido.

Get in there.

Crash Bang Color Lab on FaceBook!
Everyday this week.

The world, your people, your body, your soul needs this fire.

Xx
Lydia

#ownyourflow

The FASTEST way to unleash your creative firehose?

The FASTEST way to unleash your creative firehose?

Fire up your sexual energy and CREATE of what you WANT.

Knowing. Asking. Seeking. Deciding. Creating.

If you're sitting at home feeling brain foggy, confused & cagey, stop waiting for inspiration.
You don't need another online course or more time or spring cleaning.

You need to be actively creating pleasure in your mind and body.
Your sexual energy IS your life force& your dynamic creative spirit.

It is the cure to
writers block
wispy confidence
limp financial flow
angsty parenting &
personal / relational stagnation!

If you're not in creation mode, with ideas flying out of you left and right, this quarantine is the perfect incubator.

within the fear & uncertainty, your ability to allow and counter these waves of emotions is imperative.

This is why I coach.

This is who I help.

Join my free FB group @Crash Bang Color Lab to dive into 5 ways to do just this during our homestay.

How to boost your creative sexual energy💥

Everyday next week
live coaching, videos and practical prompts to get you rollin.

Its time to get turned on and get your creative powers flowing🔥

#creativelife #lifeforce #pleasurecoach #creativeprowess #firehose #sexualflow #openuptolife #alovelife #alovedlife #vaginapower #getlit #turnedonlife photocred @kimanami

This is how we roll. Costco + 2week supply if food

This is how we roll.
Costco + 2week supply if food + @dr_jer medical extraordinare = bookoo 🍋🍊🍓 food, all corona free!

Take precautions
Shop only 1x week (or less)
Know what you want 📝 to shop faster
Dont touch items at the store unless you're going to buy them
Young people shop for people you love over 65!

At home:
Create a sterile counter to place CLEANED items
Wash it ALL Or
Remove things from boxes / bags and trash the outer layers that others touch

Love the food and health you have!

We learned a-lot from this Dr YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=sjDuwc9KBps

Happy shopping! Stay safe n clean!

Any tips you are practicing?? #besmartshoppers

Woman. Your sexuality is as natural as your hunger

Woman. Your sexuality is as natural as your hunger.
Its good, necessary & unbroken.

But like most people, paying attention to your body signals can feel complicated.

For example, eating when your clearly NOT hungry #emotions #helloquarantine

For this, there's your Hunger Scale, which helps you
☝🏼eat ONLY when you're actually hungry (not just bored or anxious) AND ✌🏼 pay attention to body "feels"

Your HUNGER SCALE:
•
-10 = 🤤famished,
0 = 😐not hungry at all
+ 10= 🤢stuffed.

Eat when your hungry and stop when your sated (between a -2 and +2)
•

This brings me to your SEXUAL HUNGER SCALE!

Similarly:
☝🏼 Have sex ONLY when you want it ✌🏼pay attention to body "feels"
•
-10 = 🥶ice cold, separate beds
0 = 😐meh, could get into it
10 = ☄️on fire, rip his clothes off on tuesday morning...in the kitchen.

I was operating around a - 2 for a LONG time ❄️& slowly dimming down the scale.

Which sounded like:
I’d rather sleep or watch a movie
Kids in the bed is just fine
It’s really just for him.
It’s a inconvenient chore.
Meh, maybe I don’t ever need sex again.
Get awaaaayyyyy ... sorry.. but srsly
#antipleasure

I didnt think sex was a "problem" until I noticed bouyant, sensual women and thought, I want THAT.

I was denying pleasure

I hid my femininity & body

Bickering was a given

I noticed my limp creative energy

My zest for life had gotten flabby.

But guess what! Nothing had gone wrong, I just had gotten off balance in my ☃️sexual hunger scale!

I started paying attention to my body, when I was feeling frigid or in pleasure.

I began noticing what I wanted and seeking more of it

I realized I could INCREASE sensation and desire with simple daily practices.

We DO have the power to turn up the heat with our libido & reawaken all the senses.

You can simmer at a 7, without pharmaceuticals, booze, or “spicing” things up with toys or kinky business.
The truth is, it begins in your mind.

No gimmicks, no tricks, no magic pill.

The mind will want to stay swimming in an ice bath, lulled with Netflix and cozy grannie-flannels.
But, if you want for more pleasure, you can have it.
Buy the golden coaching ticket, take the ride!

Traveling in my mind 🧉🐚🌴🤍 • Where is

Traveling in my mind 🧉🐚🌴🤍 •
Where is the first place you'll travel post #coronapocalypse ??#imissthebeach

How much time do you spend naked? outside? This

How much time do you spend naked?

outside?

This past week Ive been sun bathing, thinking,
someday, when Im not so boxed in with old dude neighbors, I will be nude.

In the sun and water and gardens and sand.

On my honeymoon in Greece, i was SO excited for topless beaches (even the ones which im pretty sure weren't topless... oh well)

Somewhere in me is a well-tanned, wild woman... soakin up all the rays.

Till then, maybe my bikinis will just get skimpier.

#dreamytanlines #doyounude #lushlady #vitamind #burningman #booblove #freethenipple #sunkissed
Luscious art muse: @mhnuckols 💋🌿

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