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The loss of one of our great matriarchs.😞 RIP

The loss of one of our great matriarchs.😞

RIP #RBG #notoriousrbg @feministvoice 🙏🏼thank you for the image

"To love women, is to love our vagina's, to know

"To love women, is to love our vagina's,

to know them and touch them and be familiar with who we are and what we need.

To satisfy ourselves,
to teach our lovers to satisfy us,

to be present in our vaginas, to speak of them out loud, to speak of their hunger and pain and loneliness and humor,

to make them visible so they cannot be ravaged in the dark without great consequence,

so that our CENTER, our point, our motor, our dream, is no longer detached, mutilated, numb, broken, invisible, or ashamed. ...

You have to talk about VAGINAS"

~ Eve Ensler, Vagina Monologues circa 1998

yeahh, its been 2 decades since these monologues came out and they are still just as poignant and necessary.

RECLAIM your anatomy🍒🌺💥

I've been looking for fun, sexy office art. I lov

I've been looking for fun, sexy office art.

I love my office.

I love my job.

As a sex & pleasure coach, just today I LOVED coaching on sexual revolution, vaginas, brain science, threesomes, body shame, masturbation, anal sex, strip dancing, religion, divorce, sex on drugs, and of course ALL the thoughts in between.

And YET, there is STILL part of my brain that is like waaaaaait a minute....

A picture... like THIS... on my wall... is um... a little risqué for my kids and extended family 😳

What will they think?

What will it mean about me ... as a good mom?

And I catch my brain... doing what it thinks will keep me safe and comfortable and playing by "the rules"

You are smart
You are a badass
You have had some wild times

AND do you see the moments where there's that voice that whispers
shhhhh don't be sexual!
Remember sex is dangerous!
Play small and nice.
Sex is AWKWARD and frustrating
Don't make waves.
Being turned on is just for your man, like, for sex.

We are all swimming in the patriarchal waters that fear a turned on woman.

Hot red cherries 🍒
Naked
Skin
Sweat
Making sex sounds
Being seen as sexual
Using a sexual charge AS intelligence.
Living the Forbidden

You are more than a mom. A wife. A daughter. A nice girl.

The scarlet letter still threatens us from inside our own head and echoes through our world.

We are all on this journey to reclaim our bodies and pleasure.

Vast, wild, enraptured connection with your flesh may just come one thought at a time.

Woman. For more than just scrolling, step into your power.

Take the scary leap and book a free consultation to see what is possible for YOU.

It's not just your sex life that will change- but your legacy for women generations to come.
💥👄💥

And YES... I love my friend @katyarrington 's work, I admire it, I see the celebration within it.
Mmmmm yes!

Your vagina is not vulgar. Inappropriate Offensi

Your vagina is not vulgar.

Inappropriate
Offensive
Gross
Smelly
Too much
Broken
Slutty
Unbecoming
Too Private
Bent
Too hairy
Distracting from your intellect
Vulnerable
Wrong
Nether regions
Abyss
Foreign
Wrong somehow

These words are learned from others and then re-taught to ourselves over and over again.

Better sex is NOT about saving your marriage or achieving more woman-ness.

Better sex is one of COUNTLESS results from reclaiming the POWERFUL TRUTH of your anatomy.

Just like your teeth and skin, your vagina is pure, amazing and powerful.

Take a crotch shot.

Claim it.

Post it.

Send it my way.

And start your own sexual revolution.

It at the heart of your most fiercely pleasured & abundant life.

To forge this path with a coach, I can help you find better tools to dig in and unleash!

Your consultation awaits woman- send me a message to get started.
Get grinding, swooning and celebrating🔥

Ps, seriously, crotch shots are tricky to take, like, that weird angle that included both your face (optional) AND your face? takes talent 🤣

A client of mine posted this & I had never read th

A client of mine posted this & I had never read this poem by Charlie Chaplin. So good!

“As I began to love myself
I found that anguish and emotional suffering
are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth.
Today, I know, this is Authenticity.

As I began to love myself
I understood how much it can offend somebody if I try to force my desires on this person,
even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it,
and even though this person was me.
Today I call this Respect.

As I began to love myself
I stopped craving for a different life, & I could see that everything
that surrounded me
was inviting me to grow.
Today I call this Maturity.

As I began to love myself
I understood that at any circumstance,
I am in the right place at the right time,
and everything happens at the exactly right moment.
So I could be calm.
Today I call this Self-Confidence.

As I began to love myself
I quit stealing my own time,
and I stopped designing huge projects for the future.
Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness,
things I love to do and that make my heart cheer,
and I do them in my own way
and in my own rhythm.
Today I call this Simplicity.

As I began to love myself
I freed myself of anything
that is no good for my health –
food, people, things, situations,
and everything that drew me down & away from myself.
At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism.
Today I know it is Love of Oneself.

As I began to love myself
I quit trying to always be right,
and ever since I was wrong less of the time.
Today I discovered that is Modesty.

As I began to love myself
I refused to go on living in the past &worrying about the future.
Now, I only live for the moment,
where everything is happening.
Today I live each day,
day by day,
and I call it Fulfillment.

As I began to love myself
I recognized that my mind can disturb me & it can make me sick.
But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally.
Today I call this connection Wisdom of the Heart.

We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or anykind of problems with ourselves or others.
Even stars collide and 👇🏼

You are of the earth. The sand The rock The dust

You are of the earth.

The sand
The rock
The dust
The moss

Be lead home, back to grounding, into YOU.

Meditate naked, link in bio.

We are all layered. Complicated, slick, vibrant,

We are all layered.

Complicated, slick, vibrant, growing, lush things.

And at the heart of us, what we all want is LOVE.

Better marriages, better bodies, better sex, better lives ... its ALL in effort to feel more love.

And ya know what?

Coaching doesn't make you a better person, but it does grow your capacity to feel.

It creates for you a bigger container to fit ALL of you.

The hot greenhouse.

The sticky.

The dirty.

The roots.

The truth.

And most of all, the LOVE.

Grow your capacity to feel, to give and to experience love & send me a note.

You're life is bigger and more wild than you can ever imagine and I can help you unlock your love.

Now is the time.

Love is always the best choice.

Xx

#pleasurecoach #pleasureseeker #loveseeker

I now have a Podcast. To the Pleasure Seekers, yo

I now have a Podcast.

To the Pleasure Seekers, you have my full heart and attention.

Yes YOU, you ARE a Pleasure Seeker because you're a hot blooded, living human👄

You we're born whole and worthy of epic pleasure, wild fuckery and deep, unshakable love.

Nothing can take that away from you... but your own limiting brain.

I dedicate this work to exploring your longings, sexual possibilities, angsty trappings and everything in between.

You are MAGIC.

Take a listen, follow along, & create your most pleasured life.

Look up "The Pleasure Seeker" on all podcast platforms 💋, subscribe and leave a love note!

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