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the power of PLEASURE.

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🔥 go on. Talk a walk on the smutty side. Happ

🔥 go on.

Talk a walk on the smutty side.

Happy Monday lovies!

Pleasure & Feeeeeling sexy takes three things:

👉🏼mindset
👉🏼pleasure now
👉🏼action

You can start with any of these, but ya need all three.

Listen up to this week's podcast (The Pleasure Seeker) to hear the first of this 3-part series!

First up: create a pleasured MINDSET!

Feeling sexy doesn't magically happen from losing

Feeling sexy doesn't magically happen from losing weight.

Duh, there are plenty of skinny ladies feeling TERRIBLE and insecure.

Sexy isn't guaranteed just by taking a bunch of actions -nose job! yoga membership! More sex!

It requires your concept of WHO YOU ARE to shift.

As in, actually seeing yourself as a PLEASURED, sexy woman all day long.

Creating and becoming that sexy vibe happens in three ways...

(You really do need ALL three of these things)

1. 💥Take action & change your environment:

This usually seems most intuitive to start here.

💥Still, it does take courage to change your surroundings 💥routines, 💥relationships, 💥body, 💥posture, 💥leisure time and 💥wardrobe.

Your outside world DOES affect you.

So yes, being in a new relationship, trying new things and buys stuff can help ignite change.

2. 💋Intentional PLEASURE NOW.

💋Actively create and seek pleasure today without waiting for your life to be different.

💋Start small & begin to build more erotic pleasure in.

3. 💡Mindset

Hands down the only way to make lasting, powerful change.

💡Ease up on current shitty thoughts.

💡Think new thoughts.

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Ya need all three.

Work out and change your waistline to feel sexier, AND be sure to pair it with intensional thoughts but about your sexiness in the process! Dayum I am worth this (💥Context +💡mindset)

Hating on your fat rolls everytime you pass the mirror in your worn out yoga pants?

Invest in some new, stylish joggers and help your eyes believe the new thoughts "I don't look so shitty today"
(💥Context + 💡mindset)

Eat salads for lunches and also savor the fck out of that that dark chocolate.
(💥Context + 💋Pleasure)

Ok, keep it simple.

Creating intensional pleasure and feeling sexy doesn't take one magic thought, sensation or action.

It's a gentle balance of taking 💥action, 💡intensional thinking, and 💋feeling pleasure now.

This is exactly wbat my clients want too - sustainable, full life transformation.

They are creating a full IDENTITY SHIFT into pleasured, sexy AF women.

I'd love to support your journey too.

DM for a consult and let's dive in!

An ex-boyfriend once told me, "babe, you're beauti

An ex-boyfriend once told me, "babe, you're beautiful because you don't even know you're beautiful."

At the time I though I was pretty (in the sort of unsecure, apologetic way of youth), but also desperately wanted his approval.

I mean, Woahly shit, this perfect dude man thinks I'm, uh, beautiful!

But also... um, wait, don't actually know it... like, be an ego maniac, high maintenance, "pretty girl?"

Ok. Be cool Lyd, and DO NOT THINK YOUR PRETTY.

Just be natural.

Be effortlessly beautiful without intension or thoughts.

Downplay it ALL, take up a little less space, don't be extra, don't be superficial, or don't spend too much time with make up (I think).

I wish I could say to my young naïve self: NOPE.

NOPE 👏🏼NOPE 👏🏼NOPE 👏🏼

Actually, you are beautiful. KNOW THIS.

You are funny and smart and DUH, your face is gorgeous.

Your tits are insane.

Your legs are hella sexy and you don't even shave (#truth)

You can pull all this off BECAUSE you know this & you celebrate yourself.

Believe your body is worthy of all the adoration.

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Dear young (and old) girls:
love your face, hips, freckles, kinky hair, body dimples, curves, nipples, LOVE handles...

even when people tell you it's vain & unbecoming.

Self trust & celebration has nothing to do with ego or putting anyone else down.

Claim your beauty & own it.

Keep reminding yourself and your daughters & nieces too.❤️⚡️❤️

In this post, I touch my belly. My stomach is sof

In this post, I touch my belly.

My stomach is soft.

My stomach is rippled with stretch marks.

My stomach is full & relaxed.

But, as I post this, I am NOT celebrating a pregnant belly, full of beautiful new life.

I'm NOT celebrating some astonishing before and after weight loss photo.

I'm NOT complaining about bloating or gut health.

I'm NOT celebrating the pious beauty of stretch marks.

My stomach is not made worthy by any of these things

(Although I contend DAILY with all these thoughts).

I AM celebrating self touch.

In the morning, noon and night TOUCH TOUCH TOOOOOUUUUCH yo self like your waking up on silk sheets!

Like you're heaven to touch, soothe, lather and stroke your skin,

Simply for the sake of your own pleasure & soft adoration.

Get turned on.

Luxurious self touch more.

It's just so fun.

As always, if the thought of your tummy tum weighs on you, we have the best work to do.

❤️😉 1:1 coaching spaces available. DM for your consultation.

What a MOMENT for allllllll of us today!!!! 😭😭😭😭

Tears of joy my friends.

Thank you @fearlessyaya for making these ❤️ 🇺🇸

🔥 Do you know what makes sex a FORCE of strengt

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Do you know what makes sex a FORCE of strength within your relationship?

Your brain.

Your interest for pleasure.

Your willingness to slow down and discover your pleasure.

Even when he orgasms first and legit starts snoring.

Even when he doesn't seem to care about your mysterious orgasm.

Even if he's glued to his phone instead of romantic foreplay.

Your ecstatic pleasure doesn't come from his glance, skilled fingers, attentive thoughtfulness or gerthy endurance.

Your pleasure is 100% a product of YOUR brain.

SO!!! Decide right the f*ck now:

My pleasure is for me.
It is my self-knowledge.
It is power.
It is the salve.
It feels spacious.
It is generous.
It is creative, luxurious, playful life-force.

My pleasure is endlessly interesting.

Seek that shit out!

Experiment & invest in WHAT YOU WANT.

Court, woo, seduce and enthrall yourself first.

And hot damn, stop denying connection left and right!

This is exactly what I teach and coach my clients to do.

BEING pleasure curious before doing the impossible of getting your dude off his phone to say all the right things.

I'm currently bringing on a limited number of clients this season so get your hot spot now.

Your consultation begins the transformation, and in four month your sex life will be BEYOND stellar.

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Your little kids are not a problem for your sex li

Your little kids are not a problem for your sex life.

I’ve spent about 6 years with kids in and out of my bed.

During the bleary-eyed new born days, I demanded a "family bed."

In fact, in the spirit of attachment parenting, I quickly ditched my sex life for full-time momming -

literally babe glued to my nipple all night and baby sling all day.

Not only was my back a wreak & sleep a mess, I was too lost in the baby obsession & anxiety to want sex.

But, here’s the catch.

My low libido made that habit stretch on for years.

I actually found relief the excuse... and then just heaped that onto a heap of unsexy wife & mom guilt.

Super fun, ya!

And please, I tried all the things to extricate my kids from the bed, in hopes of real sleep and even better sex.

But ya know what?

My kids were never the problem.

Bc once I figured out how to get turned back on, we also got way more creative.

There is no one right answer for how to balance parenting and sex.

Vacation sex?
Sleep train?
Co-sleep?
Kick the kids out of your bed?
Stricter rules?
Shower sex?
Sneaky morning sex?
No pleasure ever????
🤣#ummmno

Hell YES, kids are a handful.

But they're not a problem.

You don't need to wait till they're easier, or flown the coop.

Better sex doesn’t magically happen when you are less busy with the kids,

Better sex happens when you decide you want it.

ALSO, I love helping moms get creative in this department, so if you’re ready, let’s talk.

#theturnedonmom
#pleasurenow #turnedonwomen #changethehome #changetheworld #sexymamas #parentlikeapro -- 💋

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