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If someone hasn't told you it today, YOU ARE ADORA

If someone hasn't told you it today, YOU ARE ADORABLY INCREDIBLE!

Remember that.

Let people know it!

All my LOVE & glitter to you today!

This next round of my Pleasure Salon is blowing my

This next round of my Pleasure Salon is blowing my own dayum mind.

We start next week and this embodiment & erotic ownership couldn't come at a more perfect time.

This is not about some cosmo article to achieve perfect orgasms.

It's not about talking esoteric theories or woo gibberish.

It's not about ranting with fellow disgruntled housewives.

It's not about gratuitous risqué sex talk. (Ok... well, maybe😜)

The Elemental Courtesan is about creating ease and trust in your body in order to ALWAYS

ALWAYS

ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR MF POWER.

To remember your own enthusiast approval and consent in your life MATTER.

Your power is an endless source that is both soft & effortless

& wildly infinite.

This work is about radical self trust and expansion...

In order to change your relationships and experience of desire, pleasure, passion and fun...

And we are using the scariest tool in the patriarchy:

a woman's erotic life force.

Be sexual.
Be unapologetic.
Be feminine.
Be generous with your desire & attention.

It's all unsung power in your life.

Pillars of the Courtesan YOU will own:

Your unique erotic elements (SOO 🤯🫠🥵!!!)

Feminine ritual & self care

Erotic power & sexual confidence

Embracing our shadow sides

Exploring Tantric sensual curiosities

Play & Play & more PLAY

& trusting your body's intuition.

We will do this through 6weeks of:
Weekly group mindset coaching
Weekly group embodiment classes
1:1 sessions
Surprises and delicious feast of the senses.

Dm to get your link.

Let this work embolden you, so we can change generations to come. 💥💥💥

We begin next week, so there is still time to join.

The point isn't to feel happy all the time. Nor

The point isn't to feel happy all the time.

Nor is outrage the only way to create change.

However, how can we best take care of ourselves and each other AND create change without spiritually bypassing, self-avoiding or living in constant rage in these social & political times?

Whatever you are doing to take care of yourself, honor that!

We need to connect with ourselves and bodies FIRST.

Self soothe, without judgement.

As quoted by political activist & poet Audre Lorde,

"Caring for myself is not indulgent, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare."

Since hearing news of the Supreme Court decision to overturn Roe V Wade I have been struggling to process my feelings and be on social media.

Like, ALL the feels- shock, anger, paralyzing fear and depression.

All I wanted to do was hide...

So, before I could post or even really talk about with friends & family, I just had to let myself FEEL.

In my body, I let myself shake and cry and be scared and small.

I didn't judge any of it.

I listened to what I KNOW to be true: my body & her intuitive wisdom.

I heard: breathe.
Seek pleasure & stretch
Self soothe
Get dressed.
Do your make up slowly.
Put down the phone, you've read enough.
Watch Lil Nas X music videos.
Play music.
Swim in the pond.
Laugh with my family.
Soak up the sun.
Talk about what feels scary.

There's no right way to "process emotions" other than experience what you can with as little judgement as possible.

They're all valid without rushing.

And let them "move" on through releasing.

But I know I don't like taking actions from fear and anger.

I don't like lashing out and yelling into the internet.

I want to feel all that shit so when I'm ready, I can act from creativity, clarity, passion & presence.

And we all have a unique role to play in changing the world!

But to be embodied means tuning into YOUR truth and YOUR power (which has way less to do with an emotional state).

Seeking and affirming your own pleasure, approval & authority IS power.

And THAT is fucking gold for dismantling systems of oppression both large and small scale.

So how are you taking care of your tender, badass self

From all the feels over here, I'm processing what

From all the feels over here, I'm processing what the reversal of Roe V Wade means to me, my life, our world & what next to come.

Feel it.

Guard yourself from unnecessary drama.

Protect and support yourself & energy.

Let it all move in your body.

Keep percolating what you want from YOUR life, what matters and what we can do to support each other.

How are you feeling & managing today?

❤️💔❤️‍🩹❤️‍🔥

🚑Sex DOCTAH in the house! ✍🏼You are offi

🚑Sex DOCTAH in the house!

✍🏼You are officially, terminally SEXY beeches.

LIKE, SHARE & GIMME your best s3xy emoji series to prove it your diagnosis!

⚕️🫦🩺🥵🩻🤓🥼😈👩🏻‍⚕️

*I'm not a doctor, but I role play one on IG.💋

You are a part of an ancient divine FEMININE linea

You are a part of an ancient divine FEMININE lineage....

Europeans Courtesans we're also a part of this feminine energetic power.

Women that CREATED from her sensual, embodied self (even within oppressive conditions).

It doesn't surprise me that the historical patriarchal scrubbing of The 18th century Courtesans (and similar groups of iconic women) has painted them as frivolous immoral hookers.

Not to diminish or glamorize their struggles, we DO however get to honor, celebrate and take notes from these truly brilliant trail blazing women.

Unlike virtually any other group of men or women, they used their intellect, outrageous style & delicious embodied pleasure expertise to create opulent wealth & power.

They chose their lovers.

They owned property & wealth --unattached to a man.

They commanded celebrity status within the court.

They created a cultured, exquisite & raunchy class of their own.

They held feminine rituals of beauty, adornment, space & pleasure as SACRED NECESSITIES.

Thus they unknowingly set the stage for our modern pleasure revolution.

Want to tap this ancient & infinite Courtesan energy in your life?

Your days, decisions, style, relationships & of course, your bedroom dominion will all transform under

⚜️YOUR OWN COURTESAN GUIDANCE.⚜️

Want to befriend this inner courtesan?

Step into my smoldering July
Pleasure Salon.

⚜️The Elemental Courtesan⚜️ will spend 6 salacious weeks channeling YOUR intuitive & embodied feminine.

Dm ASAP as this smoldering salon starts on July 7th!

There is no "right" way to create "healthy" ritual

There is no "right" way to create "healthy" rituals in the morning.

No BEST, most moral, nourishing, wholesome way.

Pleasures of the morning must come from YOUR experience (not a coach or book or friend).

Meditation, journaling, early rise, sleeping in, fasting, yoga, orgasm, green tea 🍵 WHATEVER...

Ask yourself, what feels GOOD to ME?

What morning routines work best rn in my life?

And changing habits often come in small (& I mean tiny) consistent shifts.

And they last when they from a sense of desire 🆚 "shoulds" or shame.

I like getting up a little earlier than my kids so I can have a block of personal pleasure time FOR ME.

Sometimes I bike, sometimes I do yoga.

Sometimes I journal.

Sometimes I shower.

Sometimes I text with friends in far away time zones.

Sometimes I sleepily scribble a to-do list.

Sometimes I dreamily lay in bed and fantasize about hot things (obvi my favorite).

My main point, be easy on yourself AND honest with what feels good to YOU.

Also, I won't be easing off coffee any time soon with lemon water or matcha... although I am capping it to one cup to help my anxious crazy brain.

It's just SUCH a pleasurable ritual 😂

Ps. im working with @danaskoglund to shape up all my health goals and pleasurefy my rituals! So, follow her SHE IS THE BOMB.COM!

What are YOUR favorite morning rituals that start your day off with PLEASURE??

Paris was beyond pleasurable. It was activating f

Paris was beyond pleasurable.

It was activating for my full body, mind, spirit.

Why, you ask?!

I let myself DESIRE it and ACTUALLY have it.

Which is the energetics behind all of my coaching.

It's reveling in your own WANTING.

Letting the wanting & desiring work magic all around you.

Stretching towards that DESIRE... which feels so scary & uncomfortable!

The letting yourself really HAVE the delicious thing you created:

The iconic trip
The book launch
The audacious award
The big money
The steamy marriage
The squirting G spot orgasm

Whatever's in your epically juicy desire list!

Your deep desires carry SO much wisdom, inner navigation and freedom.

It is your MAGIC in the world!!!

But when we consistently self-deny our pleasure, outsource our opinions, & discredit our ability to create change,

We not only DON'T get what we want, but we also feel terrible even wanting it.

I help my clients expand what's possible for s$x, love, and life through:

❤️‍🔥 EXPLORING DESIRE & fantasy (what do you REAALLLY want??)

❤️‍🔥 CREATING SAFETY and calm in the body & mind so they can relax in pleasure

❤️‍🔥 LEARNING HOW TO STRUGGLE aka "working" (& playing) towards your goals even with a ton of drama

&

❤️‍🔥 HAVING & EXPANDING PLEASURE & epic experiences without guilt or resistance.

You CAN get everything you desire.

I can help you.

If you're feeling activated by this message, trust that!

Send me a DM and let's talk coaching.

I'm offer both 1:1 and small group coaching salons.

We can chat and see what's the best fit for you!

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