I’m Lydia Feldman

Certified Life Coach

I help women

create more pleasure, presence &

purpose in their lives

Create the life you’re destined for

START MAKING MAGIC

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✨Two things I LOVE?! Pleasure AND calendaring! I

✨Two things I LOVE?! Pleasure AND calendaring! I know a match made in heaven 🤣 •
But seriously are you planning for pleasure in your life?

Is feeling amazing, enlivened and electric in your body and heart and mind a top priority?

Well, even our top priorities get shooshed aside in the name of
lazy dishes,
another season of The Deuce &
the Insta-scroll 😍 (my personal favorite black hole)

So, if you're curious about HOW in the world to create more "stress free" "pleasure" fluff romance, bubble bath time, spa day, ocean stroll and howl-worthy orgasms...and feeling a little skeptical, i hear ya.

Pleasure is not a time issue

Its not a broken lady parts issue

Its not a kids / work/ long time partner issue

Its not a 40year "old" 🤷🏻‍♀️ issue

It is not a single issue.

You are a born pleasure seeker, in your DNA

Lets see how we can get you revved up, electric and all feeling good, one calendar day at a time.

Join me this Thursday for my 10 Calendar Secrets to Create More Pleasure
4pm EST
Lesson 1:
MARK YOUR CALENDAR 🔥
DM me for the private Zoom webinar link!

#createmorepleasure #empoweredpleasureseeker #createdesire #imagination #creativeenergy #createmagic #planforsex #planforcreativeflow #planforselfcare

✨we found another happy place 🏝🍊🌊 #dayd

✨we found another happy place 🏝🍊🌊 #daydate
#southbeach
#chooselove #choosethebeach #getsandy
#aperolspritz ✨🍹 #beachparty #sbfoodandwinefestival

✨evening mood Feeling lush Feeling grateful A li

✨evening mood
Feeling lush
Feeling grateful
A little melancholy
A little violet
A little mysterious
Hows your Thursdays night?

#moodymood #violetmood #colortherapy #mypleasure #colorislife #schmood #airmatresssleeping #restlessnights

✨Well stoked desire is never a problem. We are

✨Well stoked desire is never a problem.

We are designed for pleasure and WANTING

Its built into our survival code

It's literally why we get up and get anything done

Stop spending time blaming yourself for wanting the croissant, the day off, the fucking great dress.

THE PROBLEM is not desire.

It's WHERE we channel our precious powerful desire:

Chocolate
Wine
The new iPhone
Getting more likes on IG
Hitting snooze and sleeeeep
The final season of whatever
Summer Vacation
Junk food
All the stuff on those credit cards

To stifle your WANTING, its quite like holding a beach ball underwater

Resisting desire backfires
Because it takes so much willpower
It creates a 🐉desire dragon:
We eat
We binge
We hangover
We debt
We zombie scroll
We cheat
We sneak
We numb
We procrastinate our dreams
We're pretty great at imagining, pursuing and creating what we "want", even if it's killing us

THE ANSWER
Breathe that ☄️fireball of desire for cookies ( or binging on social media or blowing off your schedule...) Feel where you're excited, vibrating, craving, stretching or hyper-focused

Desire IS your superpower!!!☄️
•
Salvate
Breathe in the deliciousness
Smell the chocolate
Revel
Imagine
Swoon
Heighten your craving so you can OWN it
Notice your body

You create the sensations of you body, you lips, your gut, your nerves, your VAGINA
You've created desire with your thought, mmmmm that sounds good

I WANT THAT

Leave your desire for cookies unanswered & let that charge you up. ⛽️ Your creative ideas crave your attention ❤️Your body is calling for your touch and love 🔥Your boring bed needs a little of that TLC & fiery imagination ✨Your unfinished novel is waiting for you to WANT it like the final episode of Game of Thrones!

Want your creative dreams
Flirt with them
Be seduced by them
Fight for them
Feed them by creating desire with your mind and body ⚡️An electric life awaits.

Are you coming?

Xx Lydia
#electricliving #awakenyourfire #whatiswaitingforyou #motherofdragons #unleashthefeminine #enfuego #channelyourdesire #wantmorepassion #askformore #letsgetreal #alifeturnedON #wokeasfuck #desireban

✨Are you tired of all the rules for yourself? B

✨Are you tired of all the rules for yourself?

Be nice
Don't make waves
Don't ruffle feathers
No swearing
No selling
No pushing buttons
Stop being too much, too extra, too pretty, too sexy, too frumpy, too mediocre, too weird, too sad, too mad, too raw, too taboo

Don't make anyone uncomfortable
Be the best mom, wife, friend, daughter, lover, worker... •

And maybe if you play nice & small, you can please everyone and
just fit right into a happy life.

Have you tried all that?

Are you craving more?

Speaking your truth create waves that will rock you

Pleasure is possible
Moms can be multi orgasmic
Mornings can be playful & bouyant
Weekends away with your partner can be a standard

Quieting your inner nag that body shames and blames the world takes courage

Making waves WILL happen when you start to shift your life

It will incite curiosity and resistance from others, and thats a beautiful thing

Are you willing to be wrong, to be uncomfortable, to take a stand for your growth?

Are you ready to dive in to your next wild, revealing chapter of YOU?

In love
With heart
& pleasure for all,
❤️
Lydia

#mamaletsdive #pleasurecoach #speakyourtruth #feminineenergy #connectwithyourself #createdesire #createstrength #boldandbeautiful

✨9:30a Ped dentist appointments mean we get to c

✨9:30a Ped dentist appointments mean we get to change it up this morning.

Skipping school
Skipping through the play ground
Skipping off to get chocolate flavored toothpaste
Emilia said in the car, this is the BEST morning EVER!

Even though I got 5 hours of sleep
I am PMSy and super sensitive
Even though I yelled

Even in the ICK, is it also possible it is the BEST MORNING EVER ?

This Wednesday, at 2est

Ill be hosting a live webinar on just this,

How to create more pleasure in the mornings ✨

Even when the plan goes off track 🤪😝🥰 DM for the link ✨
#skipon
#letsplay
#playtheday

✨A few months ago my coach asked me what parts o

✨A few months ago my coach asked me what parts of me I was most nervous to show.
Terrified
Shamed
Inappropriate
Tempted but stuck in "impossibility"

What ideas have been tugging on me which I SELF-CENSOR

Guess what? This is my next area for growth.
Pleasure
Passion
Sex

Why were these topics scary?

Fear
Manners
Good women keep it clean 🧼
It's awkward to talk about pleasure.

I DIDN'T want to talk or coach about sex.

Im not sexually "free" or wild enough

My in-laws follow me on facebook

My sexuality is WAY too personal
Im still have a lot of my own shit to work through #desire101

SO, yesterday, I had an electric awakening, ⚡️which in this exact moment seems obvious
What would happen if I didnt give as much fucks and started exploring the things Im pussyfooting around

Orgasm as a portal🔮
•
Sexual transformation✨
•
Unstoppable feminine power 💃🏻
•
Vaginas🌺
•
Creative Life Force🔥
•
Sensuality
Truth
Vulnerability
Dead zones
Being a pleasure seeker MOTHER
Taboos
My experience with sex clubs 😳
• 🤯P L E A S U R E😍

I am not a sex expert,
But this journey will be fun research, full of surrender, possibilty, orgasm and transformation of a nice midwestern christian girl into mother of dragons 🐉 🤓

Want to know a great way to enjoy the pleasures of the morning?

Create an adults only bed
Fuck
Orgasm
Play
Orgasm
Sleep like a queen
...
Drink coffee & do your thought work,
Which, btw is much easier when your vagina is speaking.

#theturnedonlife
#bringingsexyback #lovethyself #loveALLthyself #selfdiscovery #thinklikeawoman #activated
#elmundoparati
#dailyorgasms
#orgamswork
#dothethoughtwork #pleasureyourbody #imonajourney
#letsgo #areyoucoming

💔this morning as I dropped Emilia off at school

💔this morning as I dropped Emilia off at school, we passed so many #msdstrong flags and tshirts.

Two years ago, other moms helped their kids off to school in this same neighborhood and never saw them again.

I remember that afternoon so clearly and Valentines Day will always be a mix of love and sadness.

Hug your babies tight today
Love hard
Life truly is short

If anyone wants to talk as a friend or looking for any coaching today, Im free till 3 before work!
#parklandstrong #neverforget #loveisstronger 🤍🕯🦅

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