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Showin' us married ladies how it's DONE🔥 Happy

Showin' us married ladies how it's DONE🔥

Happy Friday!

This picture was taken over a decade ago when I wa

This picture was taken over a decade ago when I was BEYOND effortlessly smitten.

Years later, it's different.

No, were not obsessed with each-other, making out everywhere and finding ways to get grabby.

But, right now, like a million years later, its still sooooo good.

Fuck the "two year" till the passion dies bull shit.

Fuck the "well the honeymoon is over"🤷🏻‍♀️

Fuck the "My hormones are different... sooo meh"

FUCK the, "oh but the kids" drama

YOU get to decide how you show up in your body, marriage and bedroom.

Just like you did in the beginning.

Fuck whatever status quo sucks for you.

Go, look at your lover like a lover again.

And hell ya, hit me up if you're reading this and missing the young n easy days.

Its a lie, you totally can "get it back" xx

#friskyfriday #fuckstatusquo #ownyourlibido

No one has the power to turn you off. Or feel awk

No one has the power to turn you off.

Or feel awkward.

Or disinterested.

Or self conscious.

Or shamed.

Or passionless.

Or in love.

Of course you are paying attention to the people around you.

But YOU decide the things you will believe to be true.

So, lets say you initiate some evening kissing in bed.

Him: Ach, don't touch me with your feet, your toenails scratched me!

You think: ok Asshole, you totally killed the mood & feel annoyed, embarrassed and turned OFF.

(which btw, is totally fine).

BUT he is not the problem.

Your scratchy toenail?

Also not what is killing your mood.

It's just your INTERPRETATION of what just happened.

The goal is not to be impervious, detached, iron clad warriors always happy and sexy.

The goal?

Notice and claim your POWER in creating your own emotions.

And arousal.

From claiming your thoughts as JUST ONE OPTIONAL THOUGHT.

This is the essence of what I help my clients do.

We don't scheme how to change husbands.

We don't create a pedicure plan.

We gently investigate the root beliefs that create feeling a passionless, anxious shitstorm.

If you want sex advice of what to DO, how to do it and when to dump him, try Cosmo.

Want to blow your own mind?

Hire a Pleasure Coach.

I know you’ve got conflicting feelings about sex

I know you’ve got conflicting feelings about sex.

That is 💯% NORMAL.

You want a more “exciting” sex life, and judge yourself as too vanilla.

You're judgement isn't a problem.

You ALSO cringe with shame when you think about what your old school family will think of your braless summer attire.

Totally understandable.

You think you SHOULD have more sex or, medically speaking, you’ll “lose” it.

Sexy but not too sexy as a mom.

Fun. loyal. wild. feminine. feminist. loving. responsible. good. naughty. ambitious.

A legitimate modern woman.

Duh, you know this world of contradictory sexual rules

😅you’ve been learning them since you were 4.

Even when you rebel against one rule (yaaasss that threesome back in the day!), you’re confronted with SO. MANY. MORE. (but um… moms should NEVER speak of such things).

So.

What if these “rules” are NOT a problem?

For nearly all of recorded history, women barely had a say in their lot in life.

You ARE living proof that radical progress is possible.

Your crap thoughts about sex and womanhood are expected.

Not a problem… so now what?

We are crafting a world where a woman is not so defined by patriarchal old school rules… and it’s working.

You get to have your shit thoughts AND mind-blowing pleasure.

I can help with the blindspots.

Toppling eons of programming can actually be quite delightful work.

xx

Feeling ready for change on the horizon... You?

Feeling ready for change on the horizon...

You?

#augustvibes #feelingswoony

@aykutmaykut ✌🏼❤️ love your masterpieces! Always so inspiring. Check him out y'all!

Breathe in the stars and the hot moon. Imagine yo

Breathe in the stars and the hot moon.

Imagine your body as poetry, full of the galaxy and wild rivers and infinite power.

This week's Bare Naked Meditation is like a love poem.

Inspired by Pablo Neruda's Full Woman, Flesh-Apple Poem I invite you feel poetic.

Breathe it in.
Embody your own poetry and magic.

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Chemistry comes from your brain... not the air.
 Attraction, while it's seems like a magic,fickle arrow, is actually just a feeling.  A feeling from a thought in your pretty head.  Yeah, yeah, yeah.   But, common. Mikonos 2009?   Was that just thoughts or pure HOTNESS?  Vegas hotel party 2012?  Magic was definitely in the air.  That one time when you snuck out behind the bandstand after so-n-so's wedding reception?  CHEMISTRY ... or 🤔hmmph, maybe thoughts?  Cupid may have had his way with you, but you are not out of luck... you have the power DECIDE to be attracted.  SO. When creating desire, you need to recruit your imagination.  Simple. Not easy.  Sometimes you need help creating sexier thoughts ammiright?  Step one: Notice the NOT sexy thoughts  - ugh, gross he's farting SO loud. - why is he SO annoying? - REALLY? - Here we go again  Step two: Gently train your brain to PRACTICE sexy thoughts - well.... he is a pretty good cook. - I love his shoulders - I love the way his hands hold (fill in the blank) - man, his voice is sexy on the phone.  It's the same thing your brain did when you first met -- Focused on the sexy.  Step three: remember the sexy context for easier access to pleasure  - an inviting, clutter free bed - dressing in a way you feel beautiful - scheduling a romantic (echem SEXy) evening dedicated to intimate connection. - Write some love letters. About him. FOR YOU.  SO.   Writing little love letters is for YOU to remind yourself of all the little thoughts that had you daydreaming up a wet storm not that long ago.   And hey! If you're serious about shaking some LIFE back into your relationship:  
>>> For August ONLY,  I'm offering y'all a mini-package to rev up your summer libido!  4 weeks of Pleasure Coaching $500 Quick! Drop me a Line to set up your first call. We will go through the basic tools you need to breathe life back into your libido, marriage and adventurous summer.

Monday inspiration & color therapy 😝 I mean--

Monday inspiration & color therapy 😝

I mean-- plants are just the coolest.

I'm obsessed🌿💞🌿

Plant goddess image ala @iwetmyyplants 🥰

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