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2020 pandemic house quarantine may have caused som

2020 pandemic house quarantine may have caused some boring sex to get even LESS exciting😫.

Less vacations.

Fewer date nights.

Less dressing in that sexy dress and tappy "going out" heels.

Less attention from others that feels mmmm sexytime & charged.

Way🔥less💃🏻novel🚀action 👽

#thanks2020

So... If boring sex plagues you, let's quickly spice things up 🌶right 🌶now.

Try some super intimate good ole fashion eye contact.

You actually DON'T know everything about your guy.

In fact, you don't even know the half of what makes YOU a magical unicorn of a fuck buddy and wife.

Sooooo, don't be bored or freaked out by being too intimate.

Pick an eye, take a breath and dive into that gaze.

You'll quickly find something new.

Xo 😳😉😘
L

We can talk alot about novelty, spicing things up,

We can talk alot about novelty, spicing things up, romantic getaways and all the things....

But people.

Eyes 👀 are POWERFUL ways to connect... not to mention free and immediate.

So, maybe it freaks you out a little to eye gaze beyond a flirty glance.

Maybe it's hard to quiet your mind during sex so you close your eyes to feel more.

Maybe it's just seems weird to hold eye contact bc who knows what could come up.

Good news! It's totally ok for it to feel awkward, silly or uncomfortable.

Start with yourself in a mirror.

Look into your non-dominant eye (opposite of the hand you write with) and breathe.

Relax your shoulders.

Let the other facial features soften.

Send yourself love and adoration and an orgasm or two.

Now, adding a partner is pretty much the same.

Find your eyes, find your rhythm, sync your breaths.

Send love and affirmation to your partner (in your mind or aloud).

This practice will focus your mind to help it from skipping off into a rando to-do list or fantasyland elsewhere.

You are PRESENT with your partner, locked into the moment.

It TUNED you into eachother.

Give it a try & let me know what happens!

I guarantee sex will feel WAY less boring and more intimate.

Xx
L
#ps if you want ways to radically shift your relationship and quit waaaaiting from things to change,
👉🏼👉🏼BE the change-maker in your love life.

Dm for a consultation and let's coach!

I KNOOOOW! Being "mindful" is tossed around thes

I KNOOOOW!

Being "mindful" is tossed around these days like easy -peasy piñata candy.

And then, you go to enjoy a gorgeous spring walk with awesome people (echem OR sexy smooching with a favorite person)

And poof!

Your mind can't stay present for pleasure.

It's off to the races for all the anxious to-dos, impatient hurrying and worried willies.

Not. A. Prob.

If your mind is a mush of wanting to relax and feel good
AND poo pooing all over even your basic simple pleasures... listen up 🎧

My podcast this week WILL help you get present for pleasure.

The Pleasure Seeker #27 😉🎙

🍓🍓🍓 anyone else feelin SPRING vibes today

🍓🍓🍓 anyone else feelin SPRING vibes today??

AND raise your hand if you're ready to wear some 🔥ass-less panties?! 🙋🏻‍♀️🤩🍓

I'm 100% in love and inspired today by ms Katy's work @katyarrington 💋💋💋💋💋 thank ya ma'am for your gourmet work 😉

I feel like she totally nailed my illustrated alter ego-- yeah??

I mean. Seriously. Flash is even better than he l

I mean. Seriously.

Flash is even better than he looks on camera.

#newdogmom #flashiepants #flashmcqueen #goodlife #greatpyranies

😍⚡️ 🐼🐶

Mmmmmm talk dirty to me... Aaaaand moan and squeel

Mmmmmm talk dirty to me... Aaaaand moan and squeel and groan and well.... do them sex sounds.

But seriously y'all, let's talk about how you use that VOICE of yours!

Does sex "sound" scripted?

Do you make the same (if any) "voice" sounds? 🤔😉

Do you let yourself talk dirty?

If you want to heat yourself up... AND move that ORGASMIC energy out of just your pelvis, we can start with breath and sound.

It's all just vibration in your body so using your voice and sounds can transfer POWER & PLEASURE throughout!

If you want more awesomeness and tutorials, join my mailing list for this month's april pleasure reset!
#pleasureON 🔥✨🦊💋

Www.lydiafeldmancoaching.com (follow pop up or contact page)

Yeah, a gigglegasm. If an orgasm is technically j

Yeah, a gigglegasm.

If an orgasm is technically just a release of energy, there are SO many ways we already create orgasmically powerful, cathartic experiences.

A gigglegasm is that ridiculously hard laugh where you have

😂tears streaming down your face,
🤣your sides hurt from laughing and
😆you feel like a whole weight has been lifted off your shoulders.
☺️You RELEASE.

😌You're filled with dopamine and feel freaking so good.

Gigglegasm today AND
bring a fuckton more levity, laughter, and release into your bedroom life.

When did we all get so srrrrious about pleasure and love?

If you want more tutorials, breathing techniques and rockin mind hacks for better sex, 😘subscribe to my email list!

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🌷april DAILY pleasure reset is heating up on my list - some common n get some!

Being a people-pleaser is like wading in the surf

Being a people-pleaser is like wading in the surf at first.

You're young and wanting approval, so you rock and shift with other peoples needs.

As the tides of your life rise, your wavering and pleasing become less tolerable.

Pleasing parents, friends, strangers, partners, relatives, teachers, coworkers, kids...

Leaves you underwater.

Boundaries give you a raft and YOUR desire is you learning to swim and make waves.

Those around WILL feel your waves and the fearful child inside you will want to go back to standing still to serve them.

But, once you start swimming you cannot go back to the sea floor, under the tide of other's opinions.

If you're sinking, swim.

Craft your boundaries, the things your willing fight for and rules to keep you afloat.

Say yes to what you WANT.

Make your waves.

Be honest.

The other options are intolerable.

For support crafting this through coaching, let's talk.

🌊🌊🌊

Oceanic art from @83oranges.com_ 🌊❤️🌊

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